Love

Love 

Story behind successful life 

Well what is a successful life? An important question that must be asked to yourself in this time of your college day I will give certain common option 

1  to get good scorings in your exams 
2  to get a higher salary job 
3  to make money and reach the hill top where abani in now 
4  to have a beautiful wife 

Well choice is yours but I can guaranty one thing that every success will end up in your mind itself because joy and happiness of life starts from the heart and end up in the mind. Can you distinguish difference between mind and heart well in my view heart is the thing where your wishes or ambitions have there birth and mind is thing where it end up i.e. heart will always beat for something and when you achieve it, the mind will give you the sense of joy.

Well for a person successful life is a comfort life where even if there is no money or job then too if you a hope you life is a blockbuster success, in this section I am going to tell you about this hope.

Hope, all the hopes are based on a four letter world, you have most heard of i.e. simply love

  You would have heard and read many articles on love. And recently in our mace campus itself I heard about two types of love 

True love 

Fake love 

  And also another type of love when a rocking hell boy making a girl more attracted to him wasting his whole semester and finally when he opens his heart she says. ”what….ah.ah..you r joking dude.we r just friends da “ well is this a true love or a fake one? But what ever it is, it is confusing.

Our campus itself is ruining the meaning of love. “Love is thrust and belief “, I read it in a magazine. But do you understand the meaning I will give an example take the case of armed men at the border they r thrusting each other in their every moves, well r they in love? Of course they r. they are betting their lives in each others thrust and love.

I think, you got an idea about what am I saying...

Well do you think why most of the arrange marriages are said to be successful than love marriages, answer is simple. All marriages can be success. If the couples can see himself or herself in the other one eyes .its not based on their looks or their wild behaviors which we may think to be odd. But if these odd seem to be okay with the guys so there will be love and love only. most of the relationships r based on the ideological similarities between a couple as an instant take a case of dude who like to work hard and earn money with that buy a brand new bmw . And without finishing a week he crushes it with his will we may think its mad and the lady whom he marry .her first wish to god will be to change her husband this madly behavior., but if she likes this strange behaviour it would be a pleasure full family life. We may feel bad about this mad family because we know the value of a bmw. But it’s their life and they have every right to enjoy it by crushing what ever think right. 

  Well another think I notice in our society is that even if couples r not satisfied with there life they r adjusting each other. I think this is the point where the success of arrange marriage lies well if couples can adjust and give honor and thrust each other then life is simple and no matter whether marriage is arranged or not.

By: Jaikishan T S